We've all seen her and we've all run away from her! We avoid her as much as possible yet some people are still attracted to her. We don't know how we get her and when we do we hate her guts. Shes become the scariest thing in our adults lives and shes the one that keeps us still humble. So just maybe she's just not that bad. But still she's a motha effer, Failure is the bitch that you never want to come home to!
It's one of those words and feelings that you have to go through once at least to know how it feels and to never see it again. Failure is the one thing that you have in back of your head whenever you feel like you can succeed. It's in every corner where you walk and in every door that you open.
One of the biggest reason people don't try new things, I know from experience, is because no one wants to see failure. It's demoralizing and painful, a feeling that can resemble heartbreak, or is it actual heartbreak. It's one of the worse things to go through on top of death. Maybe that's a little to exaggerated but you get the drift of where I'm going with it.
So we avoid it by staying in our safety net, staying inside the box, under our sheets. We become a hermit and hid ourselves away from the new and the different.
How do we overcome this fear? How do we pass on or face it but then move back up?
Those are question that still baffle me. I wish I really knew the answers to that and I really don't think anyone has those answers for me. But someone can have the road to show you how to reach those answers just listen in. . .
Tuesday, October 20, 2009
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